<body> Chapel Of Love

...chapel of love



Shirley Tan*

Rabbits*

Gemini*

18th June 1987*

Baby*


...friends

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  • Dorothy

  • Isabella

  • Melinda

  • Rossellini

  • Vicky

  • Wendy

  • Alex

  • Clarence

  • Edward

  • Hendry

  • How Keat

  • Li Heng

  • Keng Siang

  • Wen Hong


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  • Monday, March 26, 2007


    last weekends was quite tiring for me.. lack of sleep~!


    Saturday
    Met Dear for dinner before he went to work night shift, leaving mi ALONE~!!.. haha..
    had "Zu Chao" at yew tee area..
    my mahjiong session with his friends had been cancelled due to the lack of "leg".. sob~!!
    i'm left with NO plans.. and it's a saturday!!..
    Dear lend mi his car after sending him to work..
    and i'm suppose to fetch him at 4am..
    drove home, online, and started to find some plans for myself that could last till 4am.. haha~!!.
    glad that melinda replied~!!..
    woohoo~.. she got no plan too~!!..
    decided to go holland V for a drink or something..
    went over to bukit panjiang to fetch her and back to cck again to fetch sarah~!!..
    omg.. it's been like 4 solid years since i llast met sarah..
    she's still that talkative and active.. haha~!!..
    slacked at TCC till 2am..
    i ordered oreo milkshake and throw half of it away.. so yucks~!!
    realised i've got SERIOUS shot-term memory...
    in fact, i've already forgot most of the things that happended during sec school days..
    like 85% of it??!!!..
    and thanks for refreshing back my memory once again..
    hope this time i could remember it for a longer period.. like more then 4yrs??.. haha..
    we were like slacking and chatting away in the car after 2am..
    where we couldnt decide on "where to go"..
    it's stupid question that i hated MOST!!.. my brains are sooo lousy~!!
    went back to bukit panjiang area and decided to slack at the mc donalds there..
    omg.. first time driving up a multi story carpark.... and it's like soooo scary can!..
    phew~!!.. i manages to survive till level 6.. and parked NICELY without any scratches..!!.. haha..
    send them back and reached dear's workplace on time!.
    but i waited for half an hour before they finally appeared..
    send his colleagues home, had breakfast and lastly HOME SWEET HOME~.. haha..

    Sunday
    had onli 4 hrs of sleep..
    so damn tired can!.. hate my body..
    if i slept after 5am, it usually will wake mi up before 12pm!!..
    throwing temper at me for not taking care of my body??.. hahah~!!
    Dear brought mi to the don know wat Fair at Holiday Inn, with lots of like branded stuff selling at a super cheap price..
    like $20 for a armani top??
    it's the last of the fair.. and the whole place is like super crowded..
    somehow or rather.. you've got to be very rough and violent in order to get good stuff in these kind of place..
    if not you will be the one being pushed around.. and that refers to me!!.. haha~!!..
    so conclusion is.... we went out of the place empty-handed..!!
    mahjiong at his friends place..
    yeah!.. we are a bunch of gamblers addicted to mahjiong!
    luck was pretty good for mi..
    won 2 rounds of 5 TAI at just the starting of "DONG"..
    played 2 round, from 9pm till 2am..
    oh my.. 3 out of 4 on the table were working the very next day..
    and so we were damn tired!!..
    ended the game with mi winning 5 TAI again!!..
    wohoo~!!.. i'm winner of the day..
    but i won like $36 nia..
    it's good enough for me and dear to take a cab home!!.. haha..
    slept and 3 and woke up at 6.30 for work..
    super tired + i only slept 4hrs that previous night!!..
    i've got sore eyes on my right eye due to the lack of sleep.. i guess??..
    went to work with a ugly face without contact lenses, mascara and can say is without make up on.. haha..
    but with super dark eye bags.. overall, i look like a walking zombie~!!..
    freaking hell~!!..
    phone started to ring at 9.15am..
    meeting meeting meeting!..
    went to meeting with my fringe cover my sore eyes, which looks super untidy..
    colleagues saw my eyes..!!..
    they were scare!!.. haha..
    went to HR to get medical chit to see our company doctor which is located at the opp. building..
    omg.. the consulation fees is fully sponsored by co. de
    without paying a single cent, i got a 1day MC and a eye drop from the doctor..
    heh heh~!!..
    settled everything and went home happily~!!..
    slept all the way from 2.30pm to 7.30pm..
    sooo shiok!!..
    haha..
    tonight shall sleep early again!..

    - Loves her.... 8:57 PM ;

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    Thursday, March 22, 2007


    Tiring Day.~

    Ever since my the other manager came back on monday,
    i had been having 2hrs meeting almost everyday, just the two of us..
    Wat i can say is.. He's IN-HUMAN!!..
    oh my.. it's all too dry for mi.. i tend to switch off every 10 mins..
    it frighteneds mi to see his extension number appeared on my desk phone when it rings!!..
    therefore, i went to read the phone's manual..
    as you know, those office phone is kinda complicated with lots of useless buttons..
    yeah~!!.. and i managed to change the ringing tone and volume to a softer one.. hehehehe!!

    i'm out of office till 4.30pm today.. doing some resource thingy..
    sounds good to you??!!..
    but not to MI!!.. i'm soo bored outside..
    argh~!!..
    and so.. i started to send sms to my colleague who's in the office waiting for mi to go back and scold mi!!.. wahhaa~!!
    cause i "pang-seh" them for THREE times le..
    alright!!.. tml shall be the day i keep my Promises!!..
    that is... "To Have Lunch With her".. haha.. sound so "diaox" rite?.. haha..

    and also.. i've got a piece of good news to share~..
    MY NEW COM IS FINALLY HERE!!
    phew~.. no more slow slow computer..
    the moment i step into the office, i saw someone at my desk fixing my NEW com..
    wooo~ "it's nice de lor"..
    heard that it flew all the way form Degussa China to Degussa Singapore.. wahahha~!!..
    work for 1wk and 4 days nia, jiu got new com liao..
    not bad rite??.. hehe..

    omg.. this post is super messy..
    congrats to those to managed to read till here and still understand wat i'm taking abt.. wahaha~!!..
    i dare not re-read and edit it..
    cause i got a feeling that i might delete the whole entry instead.. haha..
    alright then!..
    will post a better one on weekends where i got more time!!..
    NIght~!

    - Loves her.... 9:23 PM ;

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    Sunday, March 18, 2007


    Police Catch Thief, I Happy HAPPY!!

    Some interesting thing happened today...
    it involves Dear, 3 Police, 2 retail shop staff and of course ME!!
    i'm basically the main party in this incident..
    sound like a mediacorp show ar.. haha~!!
    okay, the incident goes like this:

    it's weekend and hurray!, my dear is not working..
    so we went to Bugis Junction to hunt for my office wear again..
    reached and started shopping at around 4pm..
    okay.. it's super crowded over there... cause it's a saturday!!.. haha~!!
    luck wasnt that bad today.. as i manged to get 2 tops within an hour..
    one from Little Match Girl which cost 28 buck and the one from Yin&Yang, costing 43.90 bucks..
    Yin&Yang plastic bag was quite ugly.. and so i stuff that top into Little Match Girl's Paper bag with the top inside..

    then we proceed to the "Edge" section hoping to get somemore.. haha!!
    went into a shop name "BUS STOP"..
    wanted to try on a piece of super ugly dress.. oops~!!
    the fitting room was kinda small and so i place the paper bag, containg 2 tops, on the FLOOR!!..
    after trying, i left the fitting room WITH my bag, but WITHOUT the paper bag!!..
    stupid and careless me had totall forgot about that paper bag.. and left the shop happily!!

    i only realise it after we left the shop for around 3 mins ONLY!!..
    rushed back to that "BUS STOP".. and ta-dah.. the bag is GONE!!
    i'm totally in a shocked mood hoping to see the paper bag there..
    asked the one and only one staff standing there..
    alright, initially there were two staff in the shop..
    lets called them staff A and staff B..
    the one standing there was staff A..
    asked her and she gave mi those "Yaya" and "Bo-chap" attitude..
    say she don know.. and tell mi that her colleague, which is staff B, had went out to buy something..
    huh?.. why did she tell mi about her colleague when i'm only asking about my paper bag?..
    and wat shocked me even more was that her colleague suddenly walked out of the fitting room which is INSIDE the shop..
    y did she lie to me?..
    didnt think so much at that period of time..
    i'm sooo lost and sad.. mind's totally blank.. hugged dear and cried really bad!!..
    heard the staff saying "SORRY, sorry, sorry".. stupid her!!

    walked out of the shop hoping to see someone holding on the my paper bag..
    my heart is really pain about those 2 lost items which cost me $71.90.. cried all the way from level 3 to B1..
    Thanks dear for those sayang-ing..
    Really appericate wat he did..
    brought mi back to the 2 shop and buy back those 2 tops.. Thanks my Dear!!
    called mum and dor.. mum scolded me for my carelessness.. and dor say it's a lesson learned!!,. ah-bish!!..
    managed to cooled down a little after that..
    Dear was hungry and so we went to KFC for a dinner..
    had O.R. Fillet as i wasnt in a mood to eat anything..

    while eating, Dear suddenly popped-out some question which made us feel suspicious of the 2 staff..
    it couldnt be that fast for a customer to went in the shop, went into the fitting room and took the paper bag without getting curious wat's inside???..
    question starting pooping out.. like why did she tell mi abt her colleague when I didnt even ask..
    and y she didnt have any reaction when i say i lost something?..
    omg.. with these question, dear felt that the 2 staff is the most suspicious one...

    after our KFC, dear insisted on calling the Police.. to clear all my doubts...
    yeah, his occupation made him wanted to do so also.. haha..
    waited for the police outside mc donalds..
    2 policeman and 1 police-woman appeared..
    dear is the one doing the talking and i'm the one nodding.. cause i'm scare..
    the 3 police followed us up to the shop after listening to dear's story..

    police went into the shop..
    as usual, staff A had a yaya attitude while staff B had a Bo-chap attitude..
    took down their particulars and started asking them some question..
    both staff A and B insisted that they did not take the paper bag... of-course lar!!..
    police started searching "high and low" in their shop..

    wohoo~..
    15 mins past..
    1 policeman found something.. the Little Match Girl paper bag with nothing inside..
    at that point of time, Dear is somehow 80% confirmed that they were the one who took it!..
    while i'm only like 20% confirmed..
    wa.. seems like Dear got experience de wor.. haha.. well, wat he guess is always right most of the time..
    at this point of time, staff A was like telling us to believe her that she nv took it..!!
    she keep promising and asked us to believed her.. pui~!!.. if we believe you, dear wont even called the police rite?!!

    the Police woman is a nice person..
    she search every small corner of the store room and even the rubbish bin!!..
    10 mins later...
    ta-dah!.. she found the Yin&Yang plastic bag..
    okay, at this point of time, i'm like 80% confirmed while dear is alreay 100% confirm that they took it.. haha~!!

    another 5 min past~..
    another 2 police arrived.. omg y so many??
    one policeman walked out of the shop and tell us that it's CONFIRMED that they took it!!..
    yeah.. they found bit and pieces of the torn receipt of Yin&Yang in the rubbish bin..
    it's puzzle time!!.. they took like 2mins to match them back into one whole piece of Yin&Yang receipt!!..

    woo~.. no more YaYa attitude from staff A..
    she become more tense up.. and maybe panicked??
    thing started to get worst for them..
    their boss arrived..
    police talk to both staff individually..
    none of them admitted..

    another 10 mins past..
    meanwhile, both dear and i stayed outside the shop and waited for somemore good news..
    we saw the policewoman talking to staff A..
    no idea wat their conversation was.. but i'm kinda happy with wat i saw..
    staff A squad down and took out those 2 tops which looked SOOOO farmilar to mi!!..
    HURRAY!!.. my lost item FOUND!!..

    police were talking to their boss..
    and then all of them went in the shop and talked to the 2 greedy and dishonest staff..
    dear and i were still standing ouside wondering wat's gonna happened next..
    we saw another 3 more police appeared..
    WA.. now there were like 8 POLICE here..
    y are they so FREE??!!!... haha.~!!. maybe dear could answer that question for me.. !!.. hehe..

    5mins past..
    police asked us into the shop and said that the 2 greedy and dishonest staff wanted to tell us "something"..
    yeah yeah!!. EXPECTED!!.. they said SORRY!!..
    NO!!.. that's not enough!!..
    trying to make things difficult for them.. Dear questioned them..
    i of course didnt accept their sorry either..

    okay, things go like this :-

    Dear : Why did you lie and wat's your intention?..

    Staff A and B: .............. ( moments of silience)


    (3 sec later..)


    Staff A: no, i did not lie.. and i had no intention to take the top.. i just put it under the table cause i got NO-WHERE else to put it..


    (omg!!.. how retarted can she be!!.. argh!! )


    Me: you soo wanted that top is it?

    staff A:no we don wan it.. and that's the reason y we put it under the table..

    Me: y you did not return it to me when i came back to look for it??..

    staff A: cause i threw it at a corner of my cashier.. and it pretty dirty over there.. (lame shits!!..)

    Me: (super pissed with her retarted answer ) huh?.. since you don wan it, y didnt you return it to me??!!.. plus i'm crying soo badly you know ??!!

    staff A: ........................ cause it's pretty dirty at the corner.. and i'm afraid that if i took it out, you might not wan it.. (faint.. does i look like a 3 yr old to her.. wat make her think that i will react this way!! )

    Me: OF COURSE I WAN IT!!.. (you bitch!!)
    staff A: ................................ (silience..)


    alright, she got no sense of feeling sorry.. no point talking to her..

    so dear said: So you don feel SORRY at all rite?.. you felt that u are doing a right thing to put it under table and not returning it back to us rite?..

    staff A: no, i didnt say i'm doing the right thing.. i know it's wrong.. and i had already said sorry..


    (omg.. i'm going to curse her for a lifetime!! retarted freak!! )


    staff A: (crying) so wat you wan mi to do now? (point at the tops one the table )

    Me: huh?.. y are you asking ME!!.. then wat you wan mi to do??!!.. my dear had already bought another set for me and you cant expect mi to take it.. it sounds so retarted to have 2 similar of clothes RIGHT?!!!

    staff A: ....................................

    Me: NO!.. i'm definitely NOT going to take it back..

    staff A: then i return you the money for tops, and at the same time, you can also take the tops back..

    Me: (wow, it sound pretty good for mi.. but due to come "face" issue as so many ppl is around, i reacted another way) WAT!!.. return mi money?.. you think your money is VERY BIG??!!.. (feeling abit heartpain after saying this.. haha )

    staff A: i change the top to another design for you..

    Me: (this pissed mi even more.. i wonder how big is her brain or is she NOT thinking at ALL!!) change it for mi??!!.. you know my size? taste? color? design?... how are you going to change to for mi??.. bullshit!!
    ...........................................................


    at this point of time i keep asking dear how how how how??..
    told him and the policeman that no matter wat, i'm not gonna take the top back.. it sounds SILLY to have 2 tops TOTALLY the SAME!!
    then...
    ...........................................................


    policeman: (talking to staffA) think of a solution.. stand in her(pointing to me) position and think of wat you will do if you were her, having two similar top..

    staff A: ............................. as wat i say, i will return her money and she could also take back the top..


    at this time, i'm askin dear to decided for me.. hehe..
    since she said it the second time, i don wanna waste any more chance of taking back my money..


    then dear said : okay fine!.. we will take back the money!! but the top you can help it since you wanted it SO much!.. we don wan to gain anything from YOU!

    staff A: but i also don wan the top.. (acting so innocent, as if someone forced her to keep the top in the first place!)

    Dear and Me: NO!.. you don wan the TOP!!.. just pay us..

    staff A: .... so the top how? ( hey you!!.. stop asking childish question!!)

    policeman: watever it is, you (pointing to staff A) just pay them the $$, and treat it like you bought the top OKAY???... it doesnt matter wat you gonna do to the top.. once you pay them, these top is yours... OKAY??!!!

    staff A: ok..

    staff A and B: (flirting tone) BOSS, can lend mi money??

    Boss: PAY DOUBLE!!..

    dear and Me: don need don need!.. jsut pay the correct amount..


    (haha.. the boss is a really nice person i can say.. but too bad!!.. he got lousy staff!!. )

    yeah!!.. and this is how i got back my $72.. earning 10cents more!!.. haha..
    didnt lost anything, but i also didnt gain anything..
    but i'm happy enought to get back wat i deserve!!..
    said bye to the 8 policeman.. and HOME-SWEET-HOME feeling super happy~!!..

    All thanks to my HERO dear!!
    he's the one who wanted to call a police..
    he's the one who stay by my side and sayang mi when i'm feel sad..
    he's the one who helped mi to get back wat i deserve..
    his main reason for calling the police is to clear my doubts..
    he bought me another set of similar clothes when i lost it..
    ............

    there's alot more.. the list is never ending!!.. haha~!!
    to make it short, ..
    THANKS, MY DEAR!!
    I LOVE YOU!!


    wow~.. this is a super long entry..
    never ever type such a long one before..
    guess i used 2 hours or so..
    eyes and brain is really tired now..
    shall sleep soon..
    take care everyone one..
    night~!!

    - Loves her.... 12:30 AM ;

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    Wednesday, March 14, 2007


    *I miss you!

    toopid Dear!..
    where are you?..
    didnt chat with him since yesterday night..
    work is taking up most of my time..
    hmm.. let mi count..
    the last time we met for dinner was.... monday!!..
    and it's because of my first day of work..
    went over to find him and had dinner with his family and two other long distance family member..
    had "zu-chao"..
    and after that acc dear to meet his friends for soccer..
    i'm such "follower" wor~~.. hehe..
    his cousin gave mi a "QOO" stuff toys leh.. dig out from his car booth de..
    so cute!!.. it's now hanging at my door, acting like a "door-god" to me..
    haha.. oh by the way, his cousin is a OLD man wor~!!.. oops!!..

    hehehe... i misses everyone..
    seems like our poly gathering will be cancelled le..
    everyone's not free.. sian..
    shall postpone it to next next week ba!!..

    OkAY!,, third day of work..
    i enjoy my job.. really... looking forward to lunch tml..
    let's see which group of lunch colleague my manager will plan for mi.. haha..
    there's lots of new software i gonna learn..
    microsoft visio and microsoft excel..
    omg.. there's still a 700+ pages excel book waiting for me on my desk..
    but overall, i still like the job!!..

    haha.. bye~

    - Loves her.... 10:04 PM ;

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    Tuesday, March 13, 2007


    Second day of work at DEGUSSA!!

    yeap!!.. shirley had officaly become an office lady loh~
    I love the location of the company..
    it's soo near my place..
    works starts from 8.30am to 5.30pm..
    and i happily left my place at 8am this morning, thinking i might be late for work..
    but NO!.. because of the short travelling time, i managed to reach office at 8.35am..
    isnt it good to only travel half an hour to work?.. hohoho~!!..

    first day of work wasnt that bad..
    HR brought mi around the company and intro me to all of the colleagues..
    so for that half an hour, i jsut walked around shaking hands and smiling with strangers!!.. haha..
    one of my manager had flew to our china company for some meetings and will only back next week..
    woohoo~.. so i'm left with only one manager to face with for the rest of this week..

    within like 3 hrs, i had 2 meetins with him le..
    and my heart always beats so fast while i was on my way to his office.. wahaha..
    okay, so far so good.!.. he did not threw an atomic bomb at me YET...

    yeap!!.. he brought mi out for lunch that day..
    just the both of us, and i feel kinda weird.. haha..
    omg.. i love his car!!..
    it's only when i sat in and realise the difference with other cars..
    it's sooo different i can say..everything inside looks so elegant!!.. woohoo~!!

    he treated mi sakura buffet at science centre..
    it's my first time there..
    although it's cal BUFFET, as a lady, i didnt dare to eat much..
    take a bit of like this with total stranger b4..
    argh~~.. i don like.. there's lots of things that i need to take not of..
    eye contact..
    ettiquete (spell like that??)..
    language with his super strong german slang??!!..
    i'm still hungry after i had finish that small plate of stuff.. how??..
    hai..
    but after his persuading, i manage to go for second round.. oops~!!.. haha..

    chatted quite abit..
    got to know that he's an indonesian chinese and he's trying to leanr singaporean "La", "Li", "Lor".. haha!!..
    he had worked in Degussa's company in german for the past 6 years..
    jsut came to singapore company for less then a yr nia..
    haha.. no wonder la.. german accent so heavy..~~!!

    work offically start after lunch..
    given a taask and due date is tml..
    i try my best k??... don hope for too much!!.. wahahah~!!...

    hmm.. that's all for now!!..
    Dear's calling liao..
    phone's ringing!!..
    BYE~

    - Loves her.... 8:44 PM ;

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    Thursday, March 8, 2007


    DEGUSSA <<------ This is a link leh~!..

    I GOT A JOB!!
    hurray~!!.. finally..
    Pig year wasnt that bad for Rabbits!!
    that was my one and only interview even since i start looking for a job.
    and heng heng i got it!!.. lucky rite?.. yeah, my bro said it too!
    successfully passed the powerpoint test given on to me on my second intervirew.
    they were peanuts!!.. WAHAHA~!!..

    will be working as secretary cum admin assistant under 2 manager..
    wat i will be doing is to create powerpoint slides for their meeting, take minutes during meeting, create agenda and some other admin stuff..
    And Make Coffee for them??!!... heh heh heh...

    will be starting work on monday..
    yet to done with my office wear shopping.
    only bought 3 tops, 2 pants..
    think i will get 3 more tops, and 1 white pant (maybe)..
    Going out shopping with dear tml.. hope i can get all the stuff that i wan..
    he will be the one choosing.. i will be the one trying and he will be the one paying!!.. wahaha~!!..

    I'm statisfied with the salary.. just that the allowance abit "niao"..
    if i'm not wrong, am i the highest among my friends??.. hehe..
    wat i'm wondering now is, "Will there be any CPF contribution?? "..
    hai.. my dad say got CPF is better..
    yeah, i think so too~.. and i don mind taking a few hundreds lesser home... :)

    Dear's happy for me too!..
    alright, from next month onwards, i will try to mend the BIG hole in your pocket..
    alow mi to pay some of stuff okay??.. we should "Co-operate" de.!!.. haha..

    our 1yr anniversary is getting nearer!!..
    sooo looking forward to that day~
    heng heng it falls on a sunday!..
    sunday = non-working day!!.. haha



    Shirley's still a happy girl..
    life's been good for her!!..
    or even better??..
    haha..
    tata~~~!!

    - Loves her.... 9:56 PM ;

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